[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by wheelio

his son had walked away and it still continued. just like like you he kept running and running. As in this case, a violent incident in the beginning would've ended it.

in this case, it did end it, per the guy who posted it.

so you are saying, once a bully gets beat up, they will somehow magically disappear? No chance at him coming back, maybe with friends? Why wouldn't you try to take the easy way out, and see if that works? it can work, is all i'm saying. of course there are many cases that it wont, but violence is also never the only answer.

edit: never the only answer in every single bullying case.

[wheelio]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

in this case, it did end it, per the guy who posted it.

so you are saying, once a bully gets beat up, they will somehow magically disappear? No chance at him coming back, maybe with friends? Why wouldn't you try to take the easy way out, and see if that works? it can work, is all i'm saying. of course there are many cases that it wont, but violence is also never the only answer.

so you are saying, once I walk away from the first incident, the bully will somehow magically disappear? No chance of the bullying to continue? No chance of the bully and his friends finding me after school because they know I will not fight them back and attempt to run?

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by wheelio

so you are saying, once I walk away from the first incident, the bully will somehow magically disappear? No chance of the bullying to continue? No chance of the bully and his friends finding me after school because they know I will not fight them back and attempt to run?

difference between me and you, I am admitting that violence is SOMETIMES the only option. but that walking away can also work. you on the other hand, act like a bully, and think violence cures everything. bravo to you, I guess.

[wheelio]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

difference between me and you, I am admitting that violence is SOMETIMES the only option. but that walking away can also work. you on the other hand, act like a bully, and think violence cures everything. bravo to you, I guess.

keeping running away from your problems. that's a great way to solve them.

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by wheelio

keeping running away from your problems. that's a great way to solve them.

keep fighting all your battles, you will end up dead sooner, rather than later. I have a family to think about.

you go your way, i'll go mine. no need to troll the thread.

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by wheelio

keeping running away from your problems. that's a great way to solve them.

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

I do speak for myself I've walked away and never heard from the bully again. I've also fought and never heard from them again. if I had to choose one, i'd try walking first.

lol @ you thinking all bullying situations require violence.

and someone's not reading the thread, but rather twisting everything that's being said...like you are looking for a fight.

[wheelio]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

keep fighting all your battles, you will end up dead sooner, rather than later. I have a family to think about.

you go your way, i'll go mine. no need to troll the thread.

I'd rather fight than sit there and be a punching bag for someone.

[wheelio]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

and someone's not reading the thread, but rather twisting everything that's being said...like you are looking for a fight.

A fight? I better run away! (puts on shoes)

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by wheelio

I'd rather fight than sit there and be a punching bag for someone.

singing to the choir. i'd rather fight than be a punching bag as well.

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by wheelio

A fight? I better run away! (puts on shoes)

yeah, fortunately for me, I only had to kick one bullies ass.

I actually kicked him in the nuts, because he was almost twice my size and was on the football team. 6th grade. I remember it well. Then I joined the football team. we went head to head in pads, and he had a little more respect for me I guess.

[wheelio]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

yeah, fortunately for me, I only had to kick one bullies ass.

I actually kicked him in the nuts, because he was almost twice my size and was on the football team. 6th grade. I remember it well. Then I joined the football team. we went head to head in pads, and he had a little more respect for me I guess.

what prevented you from running away on that occasion?

[PoorMansCamaro]

Originally Posted by wheelio

what prevented you from running away on that occasion?

he started following me home, pushed me from behind. I turned around and he swung, I dodge, and did a swift kick in the gonads. he fell to the ground, I continued to walk home.

[bballr4567]

Originally Posted by wheelio

what are you talking about? how is he gonna walk away? like the other kid is just gonna go about his business once this kid attempts walks away? the victim appears to be a very smart kid.. he knew how to hit someone back.

I think the attack happened to fast for the kid to know what to do. Wathcing the first of the video it seemed like he had never been in a situation like this before and had no clue what to do as most kids dont. He got thrown down and pummeled. There is no defense to that unless you have been trained somewhat so to say that he basically just took it and he knows how to hit is a very ignorant statement.


And yea, pretty much the only way to deal with a bully is to either talk them down or stand your ground. You cant ignore it because it wont go away. Once you learn how to defend yourself your posture and attitude changes and bullies wont mess with you.

[wheelio]

Originally Posted by PoorMansCamaro

he started following me home, pushed me from behind. I turned around and he swung, I dodge, and did a swift kick in the gonads. he fell to the ground, I continued to walk home.

So you could've run away but chose not to? Considering you were so much smaller and more shifty than the bully. Looks like someone got a little tired of what was going on and let it allll out. Again, doing this during the first incident would've ended the entire situation much earlier.