[Vindicated Jew]

im with those guys. they didnt say the guy in the video was right, they left no comment.

your friend is wrong for what shes doing, wants to leave but is waiting for the 10 years to take 1/2 his stuff? come on. not saying him lying was right but still..

[Supermaro585HP]

[Envy]

Maybe she's a believer in one good turn deserves another...lol

And I forgot to mention (because I didn't think it had anything to do with the original post) he's cheating on her now...but hey...I guess that's okay for rich guys...right?

And I told her story to illustrate that women aren't the only ones capable of keeping secrets in a relationship...they're just the only ones who get openly criticized for it...lol

[Envy]

Originally Posted by purkel

so ill stand by my comment. its dishonest and unethical to stay with someone just so you can take half of their possessions.

WOW...but it's not unethical for a man to be dishonest in order to fool a woman into marrying him? After all...the only reason he lied was because he knew she wouldn't marry him if she knew the truth...

[Vindicated Jew]

two wrongs dont make a right.

[strych9]

Envy, I don't agree with the video, or your friend's motives for waiting out the marriage. You painted a pretty ugly picture of her, IMO, whether intended, or not.

[Envy]

Originally Posted by Vindicated Jew

two wrongs dont make a right.

Originally Posted by strych9

Envy, I don't agree with the video, or your friend's motives for waiting out the marriage. You painted a pretty ugly picture of her, IMO, whether intended, or not.

It's a really ugly picture on both sides of the fence in that relationship...believe me. I just happen to have twenty years of history with her...so I'm on her side. And it's not my job to judge people...so what she does is her business.

And I never said she was a good person. She has fake boobs that he insisted she get and enough botox to kill several gorillas...but she wasn't the one lying through 6 years of dating and the first 6 years of their marriage...it was him. So I could care less about that lying sack of crap.

[lgKido]

I find it incredible in a nation populated with 1.3 billion people that a judge would have the time for such a ridiculous case. But to answer OP's question, no I wouldn't. Has this guy no love in his heart?

A simple act of love can make up for a multitude of wrong doings. The world needs more of it.

[trademaster]

Originally Posted by Envy

Thanks for the snap judgement but you don't have a clue...so you should have kept your opinion to yourself. And why no commentary on the OP...just felt like criticizing a woman instead?

For your information...she did love him. But she had two children whose Dad left them, remarried, moved to Australia, had more kids and never contacted his two boys again. She would never have gotten involved with a guy that had three failed marriages in a relatively short period of time because her boys needed a man they could count on.

And my gold digger friend still works daily, pays all the utility bills on their beautiful home, buys the groceries and is paying to put both her boys through college with no child support from their father...in fact he owes her over $85,000 in child support (hence the move to Australia).

And yes it does matter because he NEVER told her the truth. She had to find out in the most embarrassing of ways...when her husband's brother slipped up in front of a large gathering of their friends (on her Birthday no less) and totally humiliated her in front of everyone. No one knew that she thought she was his 2nd wife...so you should probably STFU!

Why is she paying the utility bills if her husband is loaded? Sorry, but you pretty much called her a gold digger in your own post

"She wants to leave him but he's super rich so she was gonna stick around for the mandatory 10 years required to get half his sh*t"

What would you call staying married with someone you aren't interested in being married to specifically for their money? There is a term for that. Regardless of her original intentions she is now involved in a relationship just for the money. If you're marrying (or staying married) just for money, you're a gold digger.



Now, that doesn't make her an inherently bad person. I think it's dumb how much emphasis people put on ignoring wealth in a marriage. Historically, females have always looked for a male that can take care of them and supply for her and their children. In modern society that takes money. Money is the new muscles.

[Mutant Racer]

Originally Posted by 416Camaro

reading this story made me wonder about what is going on in marriage these days, on the other hand, what would you do?
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That baby has to be some kind of ugly to provoke such a response and to even have the courts rule in the man's favor is just amazing in a weird and taboo kind of way. All I can really say is that is a damn shame.

This is why Ronnie Raygun wanted to nuke the communists ya know!

Originally Posted by Envy

One of my best friends married a guy about 7 years ago and found out later that he had had a lot of plastic surgery which didn't bother her that much. But recently she found out that she was wife #4 instead wife #2 like he told her. She wants to leave him but he's super rich so she was gonna stick around for the mandatory 10 years required to get half his sh*t...so I think I'll be filling her in on this crap. She may be able to get out of the marriage sooner than she thought.

Yeah and why not? If she can swing it and win then more power to her. I'm all for bringing the rich down to our level.

[2001ragtop]

Originally Posted by purkel

It sounds like she didnt marry for love. if she loved him, would it really matter what # wife she was? She sounds like a golddigger

Um no women DO NOT marry guys who are homeless or guys who do not want to find a job or find an income.

there is always a price that has to be paid by guys (even though they can pretend there is no price.)

Example: There is no way at all my wife would have married me if I didn't have a bachelor degree from college, or a job. She would have said "nice to meet you" and that would have been the end of that.

Guys always act like women marry them for "love", but if you are a guy with no goals, no ambition, no motivation, no income, I think it is safe to say no matter how much the girl loves you, eventually she will get sick and tired of you not contributing financially and you will become single again.

there is no such thing as "marry for love", unless you are both independently wealthy, or you both enjoy being independently destitute, (and the latter mentioned couples are couples that definitely exist).

If a girl does not care if you work, or generate an income, or pay any kind of bills at all, then you are in an "unusual" type of marriage where you are probably a "kept" husband who does what the wife says. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

Marriage is a calculated business arrangement. No one says that out loud. You are making a "deal" to be monogamous and to be each others partner. You are making a deal to state publicly that you claim "this other person" to be your official mate. And usually you DO HAVE to have some kind of job or some kind of income, unless you are independently wealthy.

If you bought a ring that costs $ 30,000, then you paid a price to get married, and the marriage was not for free. If you got married for love, then you could have used a cracker jacks ring.