[Bad@ssCamaro]

Nobody (so far) is getting what the OP is getting at What he is feeling about the wife earning more is contradictory to what are have been social norms for the better part of 2 millenniums. Only since women have been becoming an integral part of the workforce and becoming additional providers to the family, has this changed the traditional roles that have long been held. As men and women progress more towards equality, the roles that men and women have traditionally held will become more muddled.

What the OP is doing is trying to overcome those traditional roles and, like most of the responses that have been seen on this thread that seem to be accepting of those role changes, in some ways can be emasculating. Like anything else, the choices we make have their impact. But the important part is that as long as your integrity is not compromised and your "better" half doesn't feel like you are threatened by her success, you should have continued success in your relationship....Just don't forget to always be "the man".