I haven't flown in years, however my dad was a flight instructor.
I soloed gliders at 14, and flew single and double engine planes up until I was 21 as a student pilot.
Over the years, I've spent a LOT of time flying Microsoft Flight Simulator as well as many other GOOD military flight simulations. It's not flying the real thing, however it can be a good substitute as well with the proper equipment.
I currently love flying the A-10C Warthog simulation I have in DCS World, including using the correct Stick, Thottle Control and Pedals.