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Originally Posted by purkel
It sounds like she didnt marry for love. if she loved him, would it really matter what # wife she was? She sounds like a golddigger
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Um no women DO NOT marry guys who are homeless or guys who do not want to find a job or find an income.
there is always a price that has to be paid by guys (even though they can pretend there is no price.)
Example: There is no way at all my wife would have married me if I didn't have a bachelor degree from college, or a job. She would have said "nice to meet you" and that would have been the end of that.
Guys always act like women marry them for "love", but if you are a guy with no goals, no ambition, no motivation, no income, I think it is safe to say no matter how much the girl loves you, eventually she will get sick and tired of you not contributing financially and you will become single again.
there is no such thing as "marry for love", unless you are both independently wealthy, or you both enjoy being independently destitute, (and the latter mentioned couples are couples that definitely exist).
If a girl does not care if you work, or generate an income, or pay any kind of bills at all, then you are in an "unusual" type of marriage where you are probably a "kept" husband who does what the wife says. Not that there is anything wrong with that.
Marriage is a calculated business arrangement. No one says that out loud. You are making a "deal" to be monogamous and to be each others partner. You are making a deal to state publicly that you claim "this other person" to be your official mate. And usually you DO HAVE to have some kind of job or some kind of income, unless you are independently wealthy.
If you bought a ring that costs $ 30,000, then you paid a price to get married, and the marriage was not for free. If you got married for love, then you could have used a cracker jacks ring.