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Originally Posted by Envy
Thanks for the snap judgement but you don't have a clue...so you should have kept your opinion to yourself. And why no commentary on the OP...just felt like criticizing a woman instead?
For your information...she did love him. But she had two children whose Dad left them, remarried, moved to Australia, had more kids and never contacted his two boys again. She would never have gotten involved with a guy that had three failed marriages in a relatively short period of time because her boys needed a man they could count on.
And my gold digger friend still works daily, pays all the utility bills on their beautiful home, buys the groceries and is paying to put both her boys through college with no child support from their father...in fact he owes her over $85,000 in child support (hence the move to Australia).
And yes it does matter because he NEVER told her the truth. She had to find out in the most embarrassing of ways...when her husband's brother slipped up in front of a large gathering of their friends (on her Birthday no less) and totally humiliated her in front of everyone. No one knew that she thought she was his 2nd wife...so you should probably STFU!  |
Why is she paying the utility bills if her husband is loaded? Sorry, but you pretty much called her a gold digger in your own post
"She wants to leave him but he's super rich so she was gonna stick around for the mandatory 10 years required to get half his sh*t"
What would you call staying married with someone you aren't interested in being married to specifically for their money? There is a term for that. Regardless of her original intentions she is now involved in a relationship just for the money. If you're marrying (or staying married) just for money, you're a gold digger.
Now, that doesn't make her an inherently bad person. I think it's dumb how much emphasis people put on ignoring wealth in a marriage. Historically, females have always looked for a male that can take care of them and supply for her and their children. In modern society that takes money. Money is the new muscles.