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Originally Posted by Heaven_is_inferno_orange

Yes fine thin hair does suck! I would love for my hair to do something other than go limp and stick straight lol. Mysteek I will take half that thick hair from you anyday you're ready to give it lol!

The great part of long straight hair is that about every 10 years you are totally IN style, and women would kill to not have to iron/roll/flatten their hair straight.

Originally Posted by Mysteek

Ok, ladies, I haz a question/situation for you all to answer for me. Here is the situation:
I ran into my ex-fiance of 5 yrs a few weeks back, and he actually came up to talk to me. Well, comes to find out he is about to get a divorce, hence why he finally got the balls to talk to me in public. Anywho, his split was rather harsh, and while I did wish Karma to come and bite him on the ass (and it REALLY did) I had felt bad about it. So, I gave him my # and told him to give me a call or shoot a text sometime and he did eventually. Well, of course having FB he hit my brother, my mom, myself, some of my cousins and friends because he misses them all, or so he says. He knew a lot about my family even though we hadn’t talked which was strange. Anywho, sorry this is long, I had invited him and his kids over to my parents on Sunday so he wouldn’t be alone. Everything went well, and my hubby did ok meeting him for the first time. Now, my mom saw my sister and him talking because she is divorced and he is going through a divorce and thinks they can help each other. I’m all for this of course, but my mom is hoping something else comes out of it. WTF, right!?!?! Is it bad that I wouldn’t feel comfortable with that situation even though I’m married? Not only that, but was I wrong for being his friend??
That ^ was the question(s)!
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Yep, like Sarah says - girl code is that you don't date a sisters' ex. I'd have a talk with him about how dare he attempt to insert himself back into your life by subverting your family. He already has my big vote of disapproval and I would call a family meeting to UNfriend this dickhead. Sorry, I have a premonition of trouble for you if you allow him entry back into your life.

Originally Posted by BowtieBelle

Personally, I don't think it'd be cool at all for your sister to date your ex, and I sure hope she'd have enough respect for you to not even do that-- I don't know what your mom is thinking! It's just against girl code, IMO, and while it's OK to feel sorry for the guy, there's definitely a reason he's your ex, and your family should hold him at arm's length. This just has disaster written all over it, if you ask me.

I should note that I am friends with a few of my exes, and it's fine-- but at some point or another, something besides friendship WILL come into the equation. It always does. You can't take back what happened between you two, and if it was me I'd tread very lightly. Good luck, girl, and if you need to talk let me know

My hubby and I were broke up for a while and got back together. He is very uncomfortable around any guy I dated during that time that I have remained friends with, and he actually did date one of my friends, the jerk. She and I are not friends anymore.

Originally Posted by BowtieBelle

Girl talk time...


GAH, I hate having to admit to someone that I had cancer. My boyfriend asked me why I hate doctors, and I had to tell him, even though it's not something I share openly in the real world. Even posting it here makes me squeamish. It's embarassing to me, and I don't know why. I totally feel like I'm exposing some kind of weakness, even though I'm FINE now seven years later... *hides*

Hey Sarah, congratulations for beating your Cancer. I don't think that weakens a person, hell girl, you BEAT it. You are strong, and sure, and cute, and alive! Rejoice in it!

Now for my happy news, one of my C5 buddies is selling me his stock rims and p-zeros (he sold his SS) for $500. - I'll be driving my pickup over to Seattle to pick them up next week. I am not looking forward to 10 hrs in my old pickup but I am so amped! I was just pricing new tires and to replace the pzeros would be around a grand but the ones I'm buying are at about 1/2 life and on rims so I'm all like this I could put the 10s on all the way around for the rest of this summer, and then when they are bald I'll run the 8s until they are worn out.