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You know I admit - I posted before I read everything -- so I never got to the bit about her BS -- still, you started it. She was retaliating -- and maybe she was more pissed off by what you did b/c she was doing the same thing and felt guilty -- who knows.
But honeslty, if you felt low enough about her to have that affair, then you stopped truly loving her a long time ago -- there is a difference between caring about someone and truly loving them. You can care and not be in love, you do not have to be in love to care.
Her doing the same thing to you is just as wrong, IMO. Even after everything I went through, though I would have had the perfect excuse to do the same to my ex - I would never have done that b/c I'm not that person. When I love someone, I make a promise, and I do not break my promises that easily. So her turning around and giving you a dose of your own medicine was bullshit and wrong.
If she's that vindictive, then it's better you are where you are.
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