[rmpackers]

Originally Posted by Camarowguy

You are the one who made a mistake. Then you added this person to Facebook....another mistake. Just put yourself in her shoes. How would you feel? You wouldn't like it either. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you probably aren't telling the whole story and possibly telling it in your favor. Don't worry tho, your human and that's natural. You need to just rethink this situation. You did wrong, plain and simple...you didn't think beforehand if this other person was worth losing your family over...which you did. You need to learn from this. Let her go. Visit with your children and move on with your life. Just next time thing before you act. I'm not condemning you, just shooting straight. Always always do this before you even consider infidelity:
- think is this chick worth losing my family and my way of life
- would I want my wife/girlfriend doing this to me?
Those two questions will keep you out of trouble if you live by them. I do.

While marriage may get boring sometimes, and you may think it's fun and exciting to fling around with someone new....in the big picture...it's not worth it. Good luck to you. And remember, let her go...don't bug her...act normal when your around her. Do nOt ask her back. Be nice. Don't act interested in her anymore. You might get lucky and her give you another chance. (don't screw it up if she does) don't apologize anymore, that brings hard feelings. This advice I'm giving you really does work.

ditto x a thousand!