My mother had an affair with my step dad 3 years prior to my parents divorce when I was only 12... And throughout the rest of my school career she knived my dad for money fought him and argued against my step mother who is a saint! And she swore up and down her sh*t didn't stink... yeah mom okay. Then she wants to take us from my dad. I wasn't having that, I told my dad if she wanted to go that route I'll get my own public defender and move with my dad and get custody to see my sisters. People always say whats best for the kids but they think more for themselves