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I feel for ya man, I really do... Heart breaking women, they're everywhere!
I'm not trying to make light of your situation...
I am concluding the finishing touches of a divorce(literally this month). She was cheating on me, admitted to it, her father told me about it as well, then several months later she changed the story to "i never cheated on you, you pressured me to tell you" which wasnt the case considering the first time I asked her about it was even the first time I hinted at it, she fessed up. Women confuse the crap out of me. Me being in the Navy and the fact that military members give up so many rights when they marry because of the countless dead-beats that caused these modern rules to be written in blood only made it worse.
I didn't have any kids with her, but I loved the little girls she had, it really sucked having to give that all up.
Time always helps heal things, as cliche as that sounds... My personal advice to you is to be as positive as possible. I started working out like a machine when my relationship went down hil, then I bought my camaro and that became my new love. Focusing on new things, especially constructive things, will help.
Another thing that helped me was never asking why (even though I REALLY wanted to) and never doing my best to wonder why. Pointing the finger at her or yourself will not find you an answer or a conclusion that will comfort you either, that will only cause hours of lost sleep, and stress on your body that will shorten youre life-span for sure...
GL man...
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