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Originally Posted by Ladybugsmom
I'm so sorry to hear that... But I'm happy to hear that you get excited to see your kids, that's a sign of a good dad! 
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It's pretty much what keeps me going. Don't get me wrong, our marriage had its issues, just like everyone's. But she decided she just didn't want to married anymore. She brought up something that happened 3 years ago to justify why she was divorcing me...Since we had "put those things behind us" (in her words!), we bought a house, put a lot of money in it, and even had another baby. But when my daughter was 6 weeks old, the night before Easter, she makes the declaration she's not happy anymore and wants out. We go to two counseling sessions, she refuses to go to the third one and sees a divorce attorney instead.
In her mind, she's absolved herself of any blame. One of the conversations we had not long after she decided she wanted out was "stop trying to find fault in me. You're not going to find anything wrong." Yeah...