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Don't worry man i went thru the same exact thing at the age of 22. Just one day it hit me that i wasn't where i wanted to be and it lead to a depression. I used to be the same way- funny, just a down to earth straight forward guy with what it seems no worry in the world. I think you are getting out of the superman effect as some people call it and that is that now life is hitting you. Everything was so easy it was a routine. go to high school then when i graduated college and so on, but once that is over it kicked me hard. I am 25 years old now and i have finally found myself. Don't worry about the clothes or what is cool or isn't, that is the least of your worries. Try to first fix yourself spend some alone time and find what interests you have. One thing i found out about myself is i would find myself having a facination with physics and space, and everything else just came into place. I also found don't DO NOT TRY TO FIND THE ANSWER RIGHT AWAY! it just won't happen. I found myself when i stopped looking and i started just going on with life and doing what made me happy and i lost some friends but made better ones. Now i have grown to have people admire me which is great because they know i am not trying to please anyone but myself. Hope this helps i know its a bit long but it is what happen in my life and hope it helps you. Good luck
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