[Blacklite]

Im kind of going through an identity crisis. I've always been a funny, witty, laid back guy, wearing cool looking vans and rocking hollister. Now I am at a point in my life where I feel like I need to make changes, but perhaps these changes aren't necessary (this is where you guys come in). Should I be more of a serious, manly guy? or should I continue to be this guy I've always been?

Please don't respond with "be yourself" obviously, if that was working out, I wouldn't be having this dilemma. Im looking for an answer more on which personality would work out for me more, as far as everyday life is concerned. You know, ladies, friends, work. Advice and opinions are appreciated.