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well you are kind of screwed.
Thats the sad thing about a divorce.... If you punish your son.... He will run home to mama... and she will let him do as he pleases.... so son will not want to be with you because you actually expect maturity out of him.
It is very sad that kids have gotten that way these days.
One person said BOOT CAMP.... I agree, but he is too young still, and the boot camp for troubled kids is a joke (well in my opinion every boot camp but Marine Corps boot camp is a joke, but thats beside the point).
It would take a wake up call to get to him... but unless mom does the same thing... it wont work.
Now, to make him respect you... he needs to feel like he is in hell... he needs to have nothing for comfort... make him appreciate what you do give him... of course if you do that.. he just wont come visit you.
It is almost a lose-lose
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