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Originally Posted by jrboyd_1980
Ok need some advice. Really not sure how to handle this.
I told Chelly we shouldn't worry about anything till we get the byopsi done and get a definate yea or nah. And that's exactly what she is doing. If I ask her how she's doing now, her response is fine, just got to study for the test tomorrow. So, do I just act like everything is ok, do I try to be re-assuring that everything will be alright? It's really hard for me right now to be the strong one, when I am scared to death. Can't show her I am worried though because then she'll worry.. Really don't know what I'm suppose to do here. She in her room studying and she comes in and gives me kiss on cheek and makes some corny joke about me getting an ear reduction so I can use it to get butt implants. (I have big ears and no butt fyi). So what do i do?
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Until you find out more, just keep going like everything is fine, because for all you know it is. You may want to ask her how she is feeling physically a tiny bit more, but don't make it weird or uncomfortable. Act like you do with her every day....thats the BEST way you can make her feel fine... If you start acting different she WILL notice, and that will worry her...