American Divorce = Financial Suicide - Page 4

Ray_Cam_SS · 09-28-2014, 09:51 PM

Gentlemen:

Please watch the Vids and judge for yourself because we all need to stick together and be very careful who we choose to be involved with long term.

Best of luck.

Homer2 · 09-28-2014, 09:57 PM

My wife doesn't drive - she won't be getting the car

Ray_Cam_SS · 09-28-2014, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by smarbrit

I sure would love to hear your ex's side of the story.

I was only married about 6 months. Got off easy. I divorced her. She is happily re-married. I never see her or talk to her. She has no bitterness neither do I.

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So stupid to act or think that women are out for what they can get from men.

Where did I say ALL women were out to get men? I am saying most American women are bad news. Not all, but most. I think 75% of American women is bad wife material. However, women outside the U.S., Countries in Latin America, a lot of Europe and most of Asia - these women ARE wife material. American culture forces women to behave an act the way they do, which is very unfortunate.

Gentlemen: Please watch the Vids and draw your own conclusions.

DP Valentino · 09-28-2014, 10:04 PM

It's all about knowing the person who will be your husband or wife. PERIOD! Marry a person who is all about their finances, being humble, and all about taking care of business over pleasure first. All problems that happen between the couple should be discussed between each other, and come to a good logical conclusion on how it should be handled. I'm not married, but when I do get married that's what I want from my wife. And as the man of the household I will make sure that it will roll just like that. IMO! That makes a marriage last till death do us part!

Mr Twisty · 09-29-2014, 12:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Ray_Cam_SS

Gentlemen:

Please watch the Vids and judge for yourself because we all need to stick together and be very careful who we choose to be involved with long term.

Best of luck.

Watched enough of each vid to see they're full of opinion and little fact.

Divorce laws vary, but alimony is not a lifetime monthly commitment in most cases. In my state, if the woman makes more, the man may be eligible for alimony for a period of time, dependent on the years they were married among other things.

ssrs2lt · 09-29-2014, 06:16 AM

Marriage can be anything you want it to be, BUT it takes two people with independent thoughts and decision making to work together. It’s ruined many families and also created great things. I’ve seen both effects from a marriage. Sometimes failure is from both sides sometimes its one independent act that will cause failure. Rarely do outsiders of the marriage fully understand why it failed.

6bangerBOOM · 09-29-2014, 06:55 AM

Well what in the hell do we have here? Haha, gotta love it when you don't check the off-topic for a few days and then come back to this. Great read so far everybody!

pickwithaustin · 09-29-2014, 08:15 AM

Maybe you should just date other guys.

jewel25 · 09-29-2014, 10:31 AM

bitter much?

xinfamousxi · 09-29-2014, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by RubyCamaro

Be not deceived, sometimes it is us women who get screwed (in more ways than one) in a divorce. In mine, not only did I have to survive being a battered wife with deep psychological scars, but that SOB wrecked my car, blew up the engine in his that he still owed on so the bank came & got what was left of mine, left my credit is shreds and left me as sole support for our daughter with only the few household items & could pack up & get out of the doublewide we rented from my cousin at the time. I spent many years recovering financially & emotionally. Can you hear my little tiny fiddle playing you guys a sad tune.

DIVORCE sucks PERIOD!

Especially with kids involved. When my nephew told me one year that all he wanted for Christmas is mommy and daddy together it broke my heart.

punkindave · 09-29-2014, 01:22 PM

So much fail here..
Can't begin to comment other than to say that anger and bitter attitudes don't hurt the target, they do however kill the person spewing them.

Steve Dallas · 09-29-2014, 01:51 PM

Attitudes like the OP has are what tend to CAUSE divorces.

hypercarfanatic · 09-29-2014, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Steve Dallas

Attitudes like the OP has are what tend to CAUSE divorces.

A+ to this. OP, I am sorry that things are going poorly for you, but it is utterly RIDICULOUS to automatically blame the female.

Seems to me that you are bitter over getting divorced and having to pay for child support, and made this thread to inform everyone of this.....

Ray_Cam_SS · 09-30-2014, 03:01 AM

Gentlemen:

MUST WATCH VID

Dr. Helen Smith. Successful Licensed FEMALE Psychologist explains why Men are Boycotting Marriage.

09-28-2014, 09:51 PM	#43
Ray_Cam_SS Account Suspended Drives: 2002 Camaro SS Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Texas Posts: 146	Gentlemen: Please watch the Vids and judge for yourself because we all need to stick together and be very careful who we choose to be involved with long term. Best of luck. Last edited by Ray_Cam_SS; 09-28-2014 at 10:02 PM.

09-28-2014, 10:04 PM	#46
DP Valentino Drives: 2010 CGM Chevrolet Camaro LS Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: St. Louis, MO Posts: 510	It's all about knowing the person who will be your husband or wife. PERIOD! Marry a person who is all about their finances, being humble, and all about taking care of business over pleasure first. All problems that happen between the couple should be discussed between each other, and come to a good logical conclusion on how it should be handled. I'm not married, but when I do get married that's what I want from my wife. And as the man of the household I will make sure that it will roll just like that. IMO! That makes a marriage last till death do us part! __________________ 2010 Chevrolet Camaro CGM LS - Performance Mods: "Everything I can get bolt-on wise to make it run good!" Exterior Mods: "Everything I can get to make it look good!" Interior Mods: "Everything I can get to make it look good!"

09-29-2014, 06:16 AM	#48
ssrs2lt Drives: too many Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: oh va pa ma tx Posts: 3,046	Marriage can be anything you want it to be, BUT it takes two people with independent thoughts and decision making to work together. It’s ruined many families and also created great things. I’ve seen both effects from a marriage. Sometimes failure is from both sides sometimes its one independent act that will cause failure. Rarely do outsiders of the marriage fully understand why it failed. __________________

09-29-2014, 08:15 AM	#50
pickwithaustin Drives: 2011 Camaro 2SS/RS Convertible and: Join Date: May 2014 Location: Central Texas Posts: 1,863	Maybe you should just date other guys. __________________ --------------------------- Currently in my Garage: 2011 Camaro 2SS/RS Convertible \| 1980 Corvette Stingray \| 1981 Firebird \| 1968 El Camino \| 2007 Crown Vic Police Interceptor \| 2001 Silverado \| 2001 Blazer \| 1965 Chevy C-10 \| 2007 Harley Softail Custom \| 2013 MX-5 in Copper Red Mica \| 2000 Corvette Convertible \| 2010 Corvette Grand Sport \| 2006 Audi A3 Turbo \| 2008 BMW 328i

09-29-2014, 10:31 AM	#51
jewel25 Mother of PWA Babies Drives: 2011 RJT 2LT/RS Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Central Pennsylvania Posts: 37,110 View My Garage	bitter much? __________________ Jewel & PMC's Build Thread

09-28-2014, 09:57 PM	#44
Homer2 Drives: 50th Anni.. coming home 11/01 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Toronto. Ontario Posts: 1,636	My wife doesn't drive - she won't be getting the car

09-29-2014, 06:55 AM	#49
6bangerBOOM Drives: 2016 1SS SW Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: N/A Posts: 1,443	Well what in the hell do we have here? Haha, gotta love it when you don't check the off-topic for a few days and then come back to this. Great read so far everybody!

09-29-2014, 01:22 PM	#53
punkindave The Great Punkin Drives: 2013 2SS M6 Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Bethlehem, PA Posts: 185	So much fail here.. Can't begin to comment other than to say that anger and bitter attitudes don't hurt the target, they do however kill the person spewing them. __________________ Who opened up a fresh box of idiots without finishing the old box, now they're everywhere!! Tesla > Edison

09-29-2014, 01:51 PM	#54
Steve Dallas Commits weekly crime Drives: 2017 Camaro 1LT Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Camano Island, WA Posts: 9,513 View My Garage	Attitudes like the OP has are what tend to CAUSE divorces. __________________ 2017 Camaro 1LT - Blue Barchetta IV I fire up the willing engine, responding with a roar. Tires spitting gravel I commit my weekly crime.

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