Fiancé didn't tell me she hit a post with my car...

[invaderzim]

Originally Posted by richard200593

I appreciate all the comments and concerns, I truly beleive that my relationship is open and honest, I am gone for weeks on end at times and this happened while I was out of town, I honestly think it was something that happened, than she forgot about it (because to her it is just a car )and just forgot to tell me later on when we talked. When I called her about it she could have just as easily lied and said she had no idea what happened, but she completely fessed up and told me how sorry she was for not telling me. I'm going to get it fixed eventually but there's a few things I want to mod first

Dude ignore all the relationship advice given to you here. No one here is married to June cleaver. Nobody here is perfect nor are they married to the perfect person. They just have way too much time on their hands on not enough common sense and decency to stay out of other people's personal lives knowing full well theirs aren't perfect either. You came in asking about your car not your girlfriend. For all I know you get off on that sorta things. Idk don't care. That's the problem with people nowadays. Too much meddling in what doesn't concern them. He was asking about fixing his car, people. Not his relationship that for all we know could be perfect for him. At the end of the day it's just a car.

[jd10013]

Originally Posted by invaderzim

Dude ignore all the relationship advice given to you here. No one here is married to June cleaver. Nobody here is perfect nor are they married to the perfect person. They just have way too much time on their hands on not enough common sense and decency to stay out of other people's personal lives knowing full well theirs aren't perfect either. You came in asking about your car not your girlfriend. For all I know you get off on that sorta things. Idk don't care. That's the problem with people nowadays. Too much meddling in what doesn't concern them. He was asking about fixing his car, people. Not his relationship that for all we know could be perfect for him. At the end of the day it's just a car.

hell, most of them are kids living at home still

[invaderzim]

Originally Posted by jd10013

hell, most of them are kids living at home still

Exactly. Or worst, adults still living at home with mommy and daddy.

[littlecammi]

Originally Posted by richard200593

Any idea if its repairable or do I have to just get a new front bumper?

That will not just buff out, but they should be able to prep and repaint it.

Originally Posted by slomaro3.4

I'm not saying I'm a gold digger, but if a rich ugly woman wanted to marry me and buy me nice things my left hand would have a ring on it.

Okay then, I'd say you're a wannabee gold digger.

[littlecammi]

Originally Posted by mrvenicess

Is she hot? Only way I would excuse that!

While driving to work one day a while back, I saw an SUV up ahead with the license plate D LUX QT (deluxe cutie). I managed to pull alongside when we were both stopped at a light, but there was a guy driving the SUV. He saw me looking his way, so I called out deluxe cutie? He replied that it was his wife's car, so I then said congrats on the hot wife. He paused for a moment, then turned back to me and said it's an old plate.

[Dtrimpi87]

Originally Posted by JBLUES

To the OP.
In all seriousness...
My advise to you would be to use this experience to show your fiance' how much she really means to you.
Take her out to a nice dinner or buy her flowers or something nice. Just show her that she is way more important to you than a car and that you can be a kind and forgiving husband.
Just my 2 cents. Good luck

So reward her for bad behavior? Do you reward your dog for pissing on the carpet? No, you shove its nose in it, tell it no, and boot it outside. Same concept with women.

[littlecammi]

Originally Posted by 2012-1822

Have you seen some dudes' wives? It's kind of hard not to know they are fugly, unless the dude is blind or something.

There's a big difference between a wife and a fiancé. There's no excuse for being engaged to a girl to whom you're not attracted. But some people don't age well. You can marry a hot girl and years later find yourself with a life partner you still love but who physically doesn't even resemble the girl she used to be.

[Dtrimpi87]

Originally Posted by littlecammi

There's a big difference between a wife and a fiancé. There's no excuse for being engaged to a girl to whom you're not attracted. But some people don't age well. You can marry a hot girl and years later find yourself with a life partner you still love but who physically doesn't even resemble the girl she used to be.

You know the difference between a fiance and a wife? About 30 pounds.

[BlackinBlack]

Originally Posted by richard200593

I honestly think it was something that happened, than she forgot about it (because to her it is just a car )and just forgot to tell me later on when we talked. When I called her about it she could have just as easily lied and said she had no idea what happened, but she completely fessed up and told me how sorry she was for not telling me.

More detail make it sound like a honest omission and mistake.

Originally Posted by richard200593

I'm going to get it fixed eventually but there's a few things I want to mod first

Don't let her off the hook too easy. It will allow these to happen with less questions.

[MBS]

Originally Posted by dkp2LT

Just get her a Mustang then who care's what she does to it...

: clap2:

[J-Short]

Originally Posted by richard200593

Allot of the get rid of your fiancé advice is all joking.. (I'm assuming, if there really are people out there that crazy I prefer to think they wouldn't have my taste in cars . We have great communication she told me it was something that she didn't realize caused damage, and unless your looking at the spot it occurred you don't see it as easily as one would think especially to someone without a detailed eye. I have absolutely no worries about my relationship or our communication but I do appreciate the feedback and thoughts.

I agree I think a lot of comments made on here were in jest. But if you are feeling some kind of way about it, you have right to tell her.

[1985airborne]

You are a better man than me; hell my wife drove my car once and I drove to her job to see how she parked it! Next time the CAMARO is off limits

[Firefighter]

Years ago I had an ex that backed into my car with her's...

I ended up taking care of fixing both cars...


I feel ya man...

[mrpyle]

Originally Posted by Dtrimpi87

So reward her for bad behavior? Do you reward your dog for pissing on the carpet? No, you shove its nose in it, tell it no, and boot it outside. Same concept with women.

And how's that concept working out for ya??